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Gays in Military Openly March For First Time as ‘America’s Pride’ at Parade

Deputy Assistant Secretary of Defense Rene Bardorf gave service members OK to wear uniforms.

Gay and lesbian service members on active duty for the first time in the San Diego Pride Parade on Saturday—thanks to the end of the Pentagon’s Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell policy. 

With many waving American flags or clutching inflatable pink flamingos, an expected crowd of nearly 200,000 cheered several dozen gay members of the military—following signs for the branch, including Army, Navy, Marines and Coast Guard. The parade traveled west on University Avenue from Normal Street to Sixth Avenue, then south on Sixth, ending at Balboa Drive and Upas Street.

Mayoral candidates Carl DeMaio and Bob Filner were among many politicians to march or ride—with spectators carrying signs of support or derision. Other participants included San Diego Mayor Jerry Sanders, Rep. Susan Davis, state Sens. Christine Kehoe and Marty Block, Assemblywoman Toni Atkins and San Diego council members Todd Gloria, Sherri Lightner and Marti Emerald.

According to U-T San Diego, “The U.S. military contingent included about 40 members—some active, some retired. As they assembled in the staging area, countless spectators took pictures of and with them. Most of the active-duty personnel said they were under orders not to give interviews although photos were fine.”

More than 190 units took part under sunny skies in the low 80s, including several grocery chains, churches and students from local colleges and universities. The parade lasted nearly 2 1/2 hours, ending with the traditional blocks-long rainbow banner and spectators joining the finale.

Batman July 23, 2012 at 02:51 pm
The point is Doug they are a bad risk. Anyone with an addiction or mental illness should not be in such a high risk or high stress situation.
Doug Curlee July 23, 2012 at 03:37 pm
you're convinced being gay is an addxciton or a mental illness..
i'm not..they are no more a risk than someone who's left-handed in a right-handed world..or someone whose eyes are a different color.. gays and lesbians are born that way..just like straight people are..just because they don't fit your preconception of what's "right" doesn't make any difference.. i'd be proud to serve with any of them.. in fact, i was proud to.. doug
Batman July 23, 2012 at 04:22 pm
It is Doug. I don't believe anyone is born gay. But I do believe some are more susceptible to it than others, just as some are more susceptible to alcoholism than others. This ugly addiction is being cloaked in pretty colors and pretty words, to the detriment of those falling into it. This gay rights stuff is not for the benefit of the gays any more than liquor ads are for the benefit of alcoholics.
Doug Curlee July 23, 2012 at 05:59 pm
well, that's your belief.. mine is different..guess we'll just have to agree to disagree..
doug
James Alan Jones July 23, 2012 at 07:02 pm
And what's funny is it is always the same 4 or 5 idiots that cause the train wreck...I think if we all just ignored them they might actually go away.
Selina Forte July 23, 2012 at 07:07 pm
This used to be an interesting and lively site to have discussions. Now it's a place for bullies and trashy comments. It's sad really.
Komfort July 23, 2012 at 07:09 pm
I don't think Mary will fall for it, James.
Komfort July 23, 2012 at 07:16 pm
It isn't a place for answers, Selina. The best we get is some people have a "belief" that being homosexual is genetic. Since they cannot prove that "belief" to be any more than pure speculation, what makes the gay lifestyle any less voluntary than the Christian lifestyle?
James Jones July 23, 2012 at 07:21 pm
Here's what I've learned from this discussion (apologies to TIL):
1. Civil Rights and the Bill of Rights are two different things. Apparently the Bill of Rights doesn't cover some special secret civil rights. 2. Summer Hemphill's bedroom experiences equal everyone's experiences. Ouch! 3. If you think homosexuality is wrong, you must be very frustrated from never having had sex. Keep the gems of knowledge coming!
Batman July 23, 2012 at 07:25 pm
Yeah, come to think, it is scary!
KC July 23, 2012 at 07:40 pm
Dear James, I'm talking about the difference between the actual Bill of Rights amendments specific to your comment about marriage and those amendments.
I admit that I am not an expert on the interpretation of the BoR. I don't know, for instance, if they include such things, say, as walking around naked in your own apartment, singing while driving, or putting jelly on a hotdog if you like it that way. I assume that we Americans have a right to do those things. If one is told to stop doing those things (assuming it doesn't endanger anyone), is that not a violation of that person's rights?
Things I Learned July 23, 2012 at 07:44 pm
Mr. Jones:
You will be hearing from my attorneys. The OG TIL
James Jones July 23, 2012 at 08:01 pm
@KC: libi (sic) said it was about "civil rights". The implication being that the gay movement is akin to the black civil rights movement. So, I want to know what "civil rights" gays are denied. The argument is being escalated to a level it doesn't deserve.
Hoa Quách (Editor) July 23, 2012 at 08:12 pm
Hi all,
Thanks for reading Patch and for taking the time to share your thoughts. Let's please remember that Patch does have a Terms of Use policy and we ask that users remain respectful and stay on subject. With that said, I did delete several comments that violated our policy and will continue to do so (but please make it easy on me and just play nice! :-). Thanks again for using Patch, Hoa
Komfort July 23, 2012 at 08:25 pm
"Doug Curlee
9:31 am on Monday, July 23, 2012 i'm a little curious.." That's how it gets started.
Doug Curlee July 23, 2012 at 09:10 pm
thanks, hoa..
drop me a line sometime..like to talk to you.. doug
KC July 23, 2012 at 10:15 pm
They're pulling your chain, Doug. Because nobody could be that utterly ignorant and think that being gay is something you're "susceptible to", like strep. And Batman, do a little research on alcoholism while you're at it, and you'll see that it is considered to have a genetic component.
On the other hand, tolerance and acceptance are things that we can be taught. Hope it's not too late for you and Komfort.
Komfort July 23, 2012 at 10:23 pm
Is being a necrophiliac something one is "susceptible to?"
Tom Yarnall July 24, 2012 at 12:21 am
Hoa, I agree that comments on this thread has become pretty raunchy and I do not plead innocence. However, since you are Censor in Chief, I would like to better understand your thresh hold for dis-respective comments that exceed your Terms of Use policy. For example, I think you censured the following comment I made:
"The last media person I took seriously died in '62" Just what did you find offensive with my remark? Being a media person, did you take the comment personally or were you just trying to protect a fellow media person, Doug Curlee ? I assure you Doug needs no help. Your censoring based on personal beliefs is exactly the reason for the importance of free speech. The Founders may have had a person like you in mind when they penned the First Amendment. Her Majesty Adrianna would be proud of you.
Hoa Quách (Editor) July 24, 2012 at 12:24 am
Hi Tom,
I actually do not recall removing that comment at all. By now, I'm sure you're aware of my track record (specifically, with Poway Patch) and how I always strive to be fair. The same applies in this case. Sorry, though, if your comment got lost in the mix. Hoa
Things I Learned July 24, 2012 at 12:30 am
I agree with Tom and Selina so I hope you know I was kidding with the Nurse Ratched link but I am surprised you removed it.
Doug Curlee July 24, 2012 at 01:51 am
sally ride died today..at 61.. too young..
she was an astronaut..a scholar..a businesswoman..an entrepreneur..a role model for young women everywhere..a really nice person.. a lesbian.. just thought you'd all want to know that.. doug
Komfort July 24, 2012 at 02:06 am
"The report that Ride was in a lesbian relationship with O'Shaugnessy was made by both Ride's sister and by a spokesperson for Sally Ride Science after her death.They stated that Ride preferred to keep this information private during her life."
Looks like Doug and others can't respect the wishes of an individual if they can make a statement out of it. If Sally Ride's genetic makeup made her not want to talk about her personal life, what gives you the right to try to score points, tabloid style, on the day of her death?
Tom Yarnall July 24, 2012 at 02:21 am
"what does the discussion of gay sexual practices, which so many of you seem to be reveling in, have to do with the ability of gays and lesbians to serve their country, fight and die in combat, and wear their uniforms proudly?"
Tom Yarnall July 24, 2012 at 02:43 am
TIL, I think we have just learned that somewhat off color jokes are not allowed on Patch, even to make a diametric point of view.
I hope you don't curtail your sassy comments. :-))
Things I Learned July 24, 2012 at 03:05 am
http://splicd.com/kbbwyAZwo_I/0/23
Barb Bo July 24, 2012 at 10:41 am
Doug, they came out of the "closet" so they could be recognized....NOW they want to dress up behind stupid asnine masks and jump around in the street like maniacs??? This is what they want us straights to see gay life is all about?
gay soldier July 25, 2012 at 12:39 pm
James, i meant "you people" as in the ones filled with hate..
Kevin George July 25, 2012 at 02:02 pm
gay soldier, you must have not gotten the memo, " you people" has now been deemed politically incorrect hate speech.
http://abcnews.go.com/blogs/politics/2012/07/did-ann-romney-say-you-people-the-road-argument-at-a-truck-shop-boehner-on-bachmann-rubios-anti-pledge-drive/ But it's tough to keep up with who you are insulting these days.
Barb Bo October 30, 2012 at 02:10 pm
its nothing to be proud of...

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